第一最好是不相见, 如此也多可不月将相恋; 第二最好是不相识, 如此也多可不用相思。 At first it’s better not to meet you So we cannot fall in love Then it’s better not to know you So I don’t need to become lovesick— 仓央嘉措 《仓央嘉措情诗》