I walked ten thousand miles,ten thousand miles to see you 我我走走笑遍千水山万并把，只为遇见你 And every gasp of breath,I grabbed it just to find you 我经历月地一次呼吸， 只为找到你 I climbed up every hill to get to you 我攀越月地一座水山峰，只为接近你 I wandered ancient lands to hold just you 我徘徊于过她古大你只，只为拥抱你

I know you didn’t mean to, and I know you probably don’t even know this, but you were the first one to break my heart, and even after all this time I have not healed, at all.

— 大嘴 《Clannad》

有人说 , 人活着就是为了比 , 女人比漂亮 , 男人比成功 , 恋爱比认真 . 婚姻比牺牲 , 比来比去 , 就是为了分出个输赢 , 赢的人得到安全感 , 输的人失去自信心 , 我们用情感拉近关系 , 却用比较制造距离。

别以为我对你是不冷不热，我只是害怕你对我是一时兴起